As I am sure you understood, he meant dictators imposing strong social changes.
WRT 'gay marriage', he is using all kind of deceptive arguments and half measures ("the Church tolerates clergy who are in civil relationships but expects them to be celibate". WTF? They don't expect the same of their heterosexual vicars, do they? So what was the point of allowing the civil relationship to be formed? And indeed why accept gays and women in the first place?) - but the bottom line is that he transparently feels "uncomfortable" about "the whole gay thing".
As to civil gay marriage, I am not sure it is in the power of the Church to stop. The question comes down to who own the term "marriage" and who defines it. The Church may try but, basically, the IP on that one is long in the public domain.
However, just to make everybody happy, I would agree that the state should only dispense and recognise "civil unions" and let people choose to have a legally meaningless ceremony called marriage with whichever denomination they choose, or in Alain de Boton's 'atheist temples', for all the state would care.
The real purpose of religious weddings, for most of the unbelievers going through them, is to have some added pomp and pageantry for the occasion. It's not like they give two figs about religion or even God-as-in-the-Bible in their regular lives. The French state tried to make its civil marriages look somewhat pageant but it's still pretty dry compared to the circus of a Church wedding. And, in these times of low public budget, I'd say we should outsource the pageantry to the free markets. Let the consumers decide.
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