I'll give you the whores stuff. But, otoh, the series (at least book 2 onward) tend to mention rapes in passing quite a bit. We haven't seen any of that. And I somehow suspect we're not going to.
I agree that "Rome" led to a watershed moment for historical, esp. antique, movies. OTOH, I am not entirely against it as - quite apart from the titillating aspects - it matches the mores of the time.
I am not sure I'd accept the Daenarys case. Or, if she shows more skin than expected, then, so must Khal Drogo. So women ought to be pretty happy too...