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Old 26-01-12, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Zichao View Post
Well that's your definition of cheating. Other people might define it differently.
I don't think so.

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What about polygamy?
That's not cheating as the multiple partners stuff is clearly in the open. Like polyamory.

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How about if you're in a forced marriage in Pakistan or something?
Then clearly your consent is irrelevant but the question would still be - are you being deceived? i.e. is your husband not meant to seek sex outside the marriage that was forced on you/him?

If, after being forced into a arranged one man/one woman marriage, both spouses have a talk and one of them say "look, I am going to have sex outside of this marriage because, well, you're not really to my tastes and we'll just be married and have a business-like albeit friendly relationship when it comes to household spending, kids and the like", that's not cheating because there is no deception.

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Unless you cheated on your taxes to pay for drugs for your dying wife.
Not remotely realistic. The time lags don't work & I am pretty sure you can negotiate with tax authorities in extreme cases.
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